Although I seem to spend more time reading a screen than I do a book, reading for me is a given. How would I function if I could not read?

In our family, reading happens everywhere…except the bathroom. I am not a book-in-the-bathroom person. Ewww. We have bookcases in every room except the bathroom.

It’s summer so the kids have days when they are voracious readers and days when they are not. My summer reading tips are as follows:

• Buy books. Yes, I know books are expensive, but kids love to reread old classics or new stories. Invest in books.
• Get each child a library card. Make sure you and your husband have library cards. Carry your library card in your purse or wallet.
• Visit the library regularly for storytimes or summer reading programs.
• Join summer reading programs at the library or bookstores.
• Shop consignment stores for books. I picked up 12 of the 13 Lemony Snicket books for about $10. I found The Complete Wreck (A Series of Unfortunate Events, Books 1-13) on amazon for $94.50!
• Shop Goodwill for books.
• Go through your book collection at home. Pull out books that are too young for your child. Move books that are too young to a younger child’s bedroom.
• Buy each child a bookcase or shelf for their bedroom.
• Create screen-free areas in your house. Our living room does not a TV. There is a CD player if kids want to listen to books on CD. Our girls have laptops, but each child has reading time where the screens are turned off.
• Read the newspaper, read a book, read a menu, read the phone book — read anything while your little kids are in the room.
• For long car trips or lengthy visits to the doctor, have kids pack a book or a puzzle book to do while they wait.

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I wrote this blog post while participating in the TwitterMoms blogging program to be eligible to get an “I Can Read!” book. For more information on how you can participate, click here.

I posted recently about my worry that the plethora of tech gadgets available to kids stops kids from reading. Do you see your child staring at a screen and wonder “Why aren’t you reading?!” I know I do. DS, wii, PS3, Flip, itouch…you name it kids can get their hands on it. Is reading suffering?

When my children were little books were a huge part of our day. I was one of those moms who had to learn how to use the shape sorter bucket. I am not a “sit down on the floor and play for hours” type. I did log in many hours playing trucks, GeoTrax, Barbies, Polly Pockets, Thomas, and Bob the Builder, but I developed many strategies for extricating myself from the play. “Mommy, has to switch the wash to the dryer.” “Mommy needs to make a phone call.” “Mommy thinks she heard the mailman…I’ll be right back!”

When playing was involved I exited quickly stage left. Not so with reading. I recall many reading moments with my oldest. She was a cranky baby, but books always calmed her down. My funniest moment with her was the time I pushed her near a display of “Molly & the Big Comfy Couch” books at a bookstore in the mall…Molly was her fave show on PBS. While I thumbed through a book probably called “Dealing with Your Difficult Toddler” or “Encouraging a Child Who Eats Air to Eat Food…Any Food,” she roared with laughter. She was “reading” a book AND got the joke. She connected the pictures to a funny moment from the show. I had never realized that a child of 18 months could “read” a book.

Fast forward to the preschool years, elementary school, middle school, and soon-to-be high school years…reading is a huge part of my children’s lives. But, technology is present in their lives, too. 3 years ago we got a wii. 4 years ago my older two got Nintendo DS. 10 years ago we got a PS2, but the kids never used it. Add in TV and laptops and the kids have many screen options. But, where does reading fit in to the screen time?

It’s July and the summer is finally here. Our days are scheduled with swim practice, trips to the health club, summer workbook time with Dad, and other activities like movies, playing outside, etc. Reading time is important…but do I need to schedule it. Wouldn’t assigned reading time seem too much like school?

My oldest reads spurts. Some days she reads a huge amount. Other days not at all. But I don’t worry about her reading. My middle must have her bedtime reading. I often cannot get her to read at other times. She chafes at any required reading. I don’t want to push it. My youngest…now he is a puzzle. He reads well, but won’t read independently. He and his dad are ploughing through the first harry Potter. He loves it but will not pick up Harry Potter by himself. He treasures his Dad and Kid time. I do “make” him read, but don’t want to make reading a huge issue.

My son is a “can read a chapter book, but won’t” type of reader. Have you heard of I Can Read! — the number one beginning reading series in the country? I Can Read! It’s the open door to a child’s adventure with the most beloved characters in the history of children’s literature.

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The day was exhausting. Here’s why:

• Staying up until 3 a.m. to print out postcards that I should have sent to VistaPrint 3 weeks ago is officially a dumb move. Who knew that “free postcards” if not ordered 3 weeks in advance would cost $25 to ship. Live and learn and get postcards to printer sooner.
• When you know you need to print postcards, don’t wait until 11 p.m. to create 4 different designs for 4 different pieces needed for your booth.
• If you wait until 11 p.m. to work on your designs, you will not be ready to print until 2 a.m.
• If you print at 2 a.m., the following will happen…you will need to find paper, you will spot a flashing light on the printer, you will need to fiddle with the trays, turn off the printer, reboot, scream, reboot, fiddle, change the magenta cartridge, fiddle again, scream, and finally give up.
• You will resign yourself to only have 50 postcards for an event where 3,000 were expected. In your defense, you would not have purchased 3,000 postcards from Vistaprint, but 250 would have been a reasonable number.
• Oh and 2 a.m. is officially not a good time to learn how to print doublesided. “Which side goes up?” “Oh, that’s right I need to put the other side up.” “Huh! What just happened?” “[scream]“
• Don’t make a list at 3 p.m. and not look at it until 3 a.m. to see if you have everything.
• Going to bed when all seems hopeless is a good idea. Waking up — or being woken — at 8 a.m. is officially soul-destroying.
• Coming downstairs after your shower to find your husband has saved the day with the printer..rocks! He has the Midas touch. Everything he touches…prints! Go, Coach Dad.
• Telling your first grader you can’t attend his game as you have to print the rest of the postcards and start on the business cards is not fun. Coach Dad took him, but I could tell he was disappointed. Next Saturday…I will take him! HATE letting the kids down!
• Arriving at an event early is an odd feeling. So this is what the rest of the world feels…not rushed, calm as a cucumber.
• Walking to Celebrate Mama in downtime Bethesda, I staggered under the weight of 4 bags, a box, and a beach umbrella. I ditched the cooler in the car.  I was fine until a 20-year-old asked if I needed help. Suddenly I felt like a creaky senior citizen. Don’t mind me I have crazy strong arms from carrying two huge toddlers…I know I just look as though I might keel over, but I’m fine. Thanks!
• Arriving at table for check in and realizing that I can’t find my contact person. Now, my bags were feeling heavy. Table and check in person were soon found.
• Table set up was a toughie as I had to secure the flapping table cloth, cut up the postcards, create two signs, set up the raffle…not that I left anything til the last minute or anything. You would think since I was up until 3 a.m. that I would have been ready. Ha!
• Thank goodness Rachel arrived to save the day. Rachel is the other half of DC CityMommy.
• Rachel and I manned or mommed the DC CityMommy table. We held a Maclaren raffle with a prize of a Maclaren gift basket of Beginnings products for moms.
• Met many very sweet moms-to-be and new moms, but the day was looooonnnggg. Many brought tents. I had my trusty, very rusty beach umbrella, but no way to secure the umbrella to the table. Out of the corner of my eye I spotted a stand from the restaurant behind me. I snagged the stand fully expecting someone to say something. None of the waiters noticed. Yay for shade.

By the 4:10 when I left I was exhausted. I was spent. As you can imagine I was not happy to be trudging around the Elm Street parking garage looking for my %$&^van. Not a good way to end the day. After taking the elevator down a third time I abandoned my box of samples and the &^%& beach umbrella to walk once again to find my van. I felt like the mom in Joy Luck Club who abandoned her twins under the tree…not that I am comparing my beach umbrella to a baby, but you know what I mean. The umbrella and box were heavy…especially after walking up and down the garage.

All in all it was a successful if tiring day. Met many potential members of DC CityMommy. Talked to vendors about running ads. Met my Co-Leader. Good day, but happy to be home. Napped for two hours!

With Dave Barry at the WeGiveBooks.org Press Conference

As a kid I devoured books. I read through the Judy Blumes. I raced through Harriet the Spy. I became obsessed with reading every book in the Chalet School book series. The Chalet School books were written in 1930s and 1940s. The books were hard to come by, but I found them at the library, at bookstores, and at school. Now, can you imagine not being able to have access to books?

Amy Tan shared her story of her childhood. The books she treasured were books given to her by missionaries. It was not until she was a little older that she was able to get a library card. The library opened up the world of books to her. I know that my children have benefited from reading books in our home, at the bookstore, and at school. My children know that I will almost never deny them a book.

Amy Tan shared her childhood memory of books at the Washington, D.C., launch of the WeGiveBooks.org. We Give Books is a venture between Penguin Books and the Pearson Foundation. So far 3,178 (correction: 3,710 books have been donated since I started this post!) books have been donated by We Give Books to organizations that distribute books to children all over the world and the U.S. I missed meeting Amy Tan. I’m a little mad at myself, as I have read most of Tan’s books.

Here’s how it works…moms…dads…grandparents…teachers…go to WeGiveBooks.org. Once on the site, choose a campaign from the list of campaigns, such as:

• NEA Foundation’s Books Across America
• Haiti Learning Spaces
• United Through Reading — donate books to military families

Once a campaign is chosen, you can choose a book to read to a child from a list divided by in to categories “New Releases,” “0-3,” “4-7,” and “8-10.” When the books is read, a book will be donated to the organization of your choice. It’s that simple.

A treat for me was meeting Dave Barry at the end of the press conference. Barry was syndicated in the Washington Post Magazine each Sunday.

I wrote this review as part of a campaign by Mom Central on behalf of We Give Books and received breakfast, tickets to the Rock Bottom Remainders concert, and a gift certificate.

As many of you know, I first heard about Joy Berry at a brunch held in New York City for bloggers. I had a wonderful chat with Joy Berry about her series of books for kids and parents. I left with a few copies. The books were a hit in my house with my kid, preteen, and teen…and me! I held a giveaway recently for Joy Berry’s books. The winners were both thrilled to win. Winning books makes my day, too!

One of the great joys of blogging is getting to tell readers what you love. I am too shy to scream from the rooftop, but I will blog about what I love!

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Happy Reading!

I had a chance to chat with Beth while she was in the middle of her cross country book tour for See Mom Run: Side-Splitting Essays from the World’s Most Harried Moms. I wanted to know how she does “it” — that is be a mom and have a successful business as a writer. I caught up with Beth on a rare day home from the See Mom Run book tour.

Musings: So, how is the tour going?

Beth: The tour is fantastic. Great turnouts in each city.

Musings: How did you come up with the idea for See Mom Run book?

Beth: I was working with a publisher at Lane White Press on an anthology for moms. Lane White wanted to reach out to some fave blogging moms. As we connected and talked about book, I realized I would love to share stories of all the moms…have voices of “every mom.”

Musings: How did you start See Mom Run?

Beth: I put out a call for new moms, for moms of tweens, for empty nesters, for grandmothers. I asked each mom to share their harried moments. The book became not just a book for news moms, but a book for moms of all ages — from moms of newborns to moms of college students and beyond.

Musings: Was there one article that you wrote that made you think “I need to write a book of articles on being a harried blogging mom”?

Beth: After leaving corporate life, I entered the crazy world of constantly running and working as a writing mom. I would share stories with someone. Writing friends would share stories with me. Contributors took the idea for See Mom Run and ran with it.

Musings: How did you come up with the title for See Mom Run?

Beth: While on vacation in Florida at Nick Studios, I batted title ideas around with my parents. “See Mom Run” was one of the titles we came up with.

Musings: How did the See Mom Run contributors come on board?

Beth: I reached out to my fave blogging moms + authors I loved. A producer told me…you need to get Sherry Shealy Martschink, a retired senator from South Carolina, to contribute a story. I wanted to have a book with moms from all different stages of motherhood so that all moms stages are included. I even had my mom (Lenore Stoller) write and share her stories! 

Musings: How do you know your contributors? From NYCMoms?

Beth: Some of the contributors are NYC Moms, but others are from all over the U.S.

Musings: How did you find your nonblogging contributors?

Beth: After I found blogging moms who wanted to contibute to the book, I reached out to some nonbloggers. The subtitle changed from ”world’s most harried blogging moms” to “world’s most harried moms.” I found when I went to cities and did events with nonbloggers that these moms were dying to tell their stories.

Musings: How did you come up with the cover design? Who decided on the robot?

Beth: Plain White Press is an independent imprint. It is run by a mom formally from Wiley. Plain White Press reached out to a graphic designer who worked with me on a design. The designer found a photo. The star was added to show that mom is a star.  It is time for mom to be a celebrity.

Musings: How do you balance your work life with your personal life?

Beth: At an event lately, I did not invite my friends as I do not want them to feel obligated to come to all my events. I only invited blogging friends and friends who I knew would be interested.

Musings: How do you balance your work life and home life?

Beth: I feel as though I have fleeting time with my kids. I want to travel with my kids as much as I can. Whatever my kids want to do I will support them.

Musings: Do you have a pet peeve?

Beth: Yes! I hate when moms overbook and don’t show up. I wrote about it on RoleMommy.

Musings: You are a busy PR professional. How do you find the time to write and blog at so many sites?

Beth: I have a strategy…during the week I will blog at night and in the early a.m. During the day I will focus on PR projects then write at night. Since I am focusing on the book launch right now, I did not take on many projects.

Musings: Do you have a mentor you look up to?

Beth: Yes, Lee Woodruff. She was in PR, before catastrophic events happened to her husband, Bob Woodruff. Insane schedule. She finally had the chance to walk away from things that were not working for her. 

Musings: Do you have any upcoming projects?

Beth: I’m working on turning See Mom Run: Side-Splitting Essays from the World’s Most Harried Moms in to a stage show. At an event in May, some of the See Mom Run contributors read from the book. A producer was there. I have written a bunch of song parodies. Another venture…readings from men. Dad’s point of view. My goal is to have a workshop in May to come up with topics.

Musings: Do you blog about your children?

Beth: I don’t blog about my kids on www.rolemommy.com. I don’t feel as though my personal site is the place for writing about my kids. I would never make fun of my kids as I don’t want to embarass them! On RoleMommy, I did have a section called Rolemommy Confessions where in the past I shared about my kids, but now I only share my innermost thoughts about myself, not the kids.

On sites like NYCMoms, I will shares stories about my family, but I keep it general. I believe that the freedom of writing is writing about what you are passionate about.

Musings: Do you keep your blogging life separate from your personal life?

Beth: I have learned to be careful when writing stories, like the ones in See Mom Run. It is a good idea to keep your blogging life separate from your personal life. Don’t want to lose friends.

Musings: Who is the sponsor of the See Mom Run book tour?

Beth: I’m thankful to Swiffer Wet Jet for letting me share the book at events throughout the U.S.  Women are the ultimate storytellers who need to tell their stories. Women like to commiserate with each other and then laugh about it.

A little more about the author…  Beth Feldman is President of Beyond PR, an entertainment public relations agency specializing in television, innovative websites, parenting and book projects. Clients have included the CBS Marketing Group, Lifetime Television, Embassy Row Productions (“The 9” on Yahoo), the fashion website, Top Button, the online stationery site Design-her Gals, Chez Baby LLC., as well as New York Times best-selling author Daniel Solin (The Smartest Investment Book You’ll Ever Read) and authors Matt Titus & Tamsen Fadal (Why Hasn’t He Called/McGraw Hill, Feb. 2008). She is co-author of Peeing in Peace: Tales & Tips for Type A Moms(Sourcebooks, April 2008) and a freelance writer who contributes regularly toMomLogic(produced by Telepcitures), Newsday, and Westchester Parent. Beth blogs at NYC Moms Blog, Working Mother,  New York Metroparents and theHuffington Post, LifeTimeMoms, among others. She also hosts a podcast for Blog Talk Radio.

I conducted a social media campaign for SeeMomRun.

In Think Confident, Be Confident, Leslie Sokol and Marci Fox tackle the issue of confidence by looking at changing thinking and more importantly changing behavior. We all know that you can spend endless hours thinking of ways to improve how you interact with others in a confident way, but unless you put what you have learned in to action you will never change.Doubt, as we all know, is what stops you from doing what you want. I recall as a newly minted college graduate I lacked confidence in job interviews. In interviews with potential employers, I would stumble over my words, not make consistent eye contact with the interviewer, and generally present myself in a less than confident way. In short, if I as an interviewee did not project confidence in my abilities, why would an employer want to hire me? I managed to gain confidence in myself through taking a certificate program in my field, but my issues of lack of confidence remain to this day.

Fox and Sokol have written a cognitive therapy-based program that teaches the reader how to conquer doubt. The authors have divided the book in to four steps or chapters:

• Label your doubt
• Question your doubt
• Rethink your doubt
• Take action

The book is a good read with super easy-to-use fill-in-the-blank grids. As I read the book I was prompted to think about situations where I lacked confidence. To jog my memory the authors used fictional examples to illustrate situations where someone would feel neglected by a friend or marginalized by a boss. I used the grids to record the situations where I had confidence issues, for instance, job interviews, dealing with my children’s teachers, etc.

Once I isolated several situations I would analyze them using the four steps: label doubt, question doubt, rethink doubt, and take action. As I started looking at problems using the author’s grid I was able to think through my issues. I may not have conquered my confidence issues, but the book highlighted what I do well and what I need to improve.

The introduction to the book was written by two medical professionals from the University of Pennsylvania. Judith S. Beck, PhD, is the Director of the Beck Institute for Cognitive Therapy and Research and Clinical Assocaite Professor of Psychology in Psychiatry, while Aaron T. Beck, MD, is the University Professor Emeritus of Psychiatry and the President of the Beck Institute for Cognitive Therapy and Research. Sokol and Fox both work at the Beck Institute as well. Sokol is the Director of Education while Fox is a Senior Faculty Member in the Extramural Training Program.

From reading the authors’ titles you might think that Think Confident, Be Confident would be a dry, academic-type book. You would be wrong. I found this book to be a great resource for tackling issues of confidence in all aspects of life.

By the way, if you are a confident person, I would love to hear how you became confident in yourself. Were you always that way? Did you become confident during grade school, middle school, high school, college, first job, or becoming a mom? What was the major reason for your shift in attitude in yourself? Please leave a comment and I promise I will respond. Let’s get a dialogue going to see how we as moms can gain confidence in ourselves as moms, entrepreneurs, workers, and people.

Publishers: I love to read books. For books I love, I will write a book review. You can contact me at JillAnneBerry@msn.com if you have a book you think I might be interested in.

The real life Book Club and I are not getting along well. I want to go to meetings, but I can’t seem to get the book read or if I do get the book read I can’t find babysitting. The other issue is the book selections. We are accustomed to letting the host choose the book. I don’t know about this anymore. Lately I have not been as interested in the books chosen. No offense to any of the members of this Book Club.

The SVMoms Book Club is another matter. I love this group. It is all virtual. I read the book. Write a post about the book. Someone links up all the posts in on central post. About every month or two, the author will visit all of our posts. Love it!

But, back to not reading the book… I finished, but was not ready to post about Jonathan Tropper’s This Is Where I Leave You. I hate missing a deadline. Hate it! I’m up writing this post at an unpostable hour so that I can enjoy Christmas without a ton of posts hanging over my head.

I loved Tropper’s book. I wasn’t sure about it at first since the first couple of scenes are a little graphic, but the book got better…much better.

The lead character is an ordinary guy from a vaguely dysfunctional family. His life is humdrum until his wife has an affair with his oafish boss — a shock jock. Judd Foxman’s life is going badly when he learns of the death of his father.

Judd’s atheist fatherleft instructions in his will that all four of the Foxman children will sit shiva for their father. For the now grown children  the prospect of spending 7 days with each other and their mother is terrifying as well as inconvenient. Three of the siblings have to put their lives on the backburner. The youngest son of the family with the least family ties is drawn back in to his role as the baby of the family.

Day in day out the family observe the Jewish mourning ritual. I don’t want to spoil the ending. Tropper tells a good, involved, yet realistic about a family coming to grips with death and learning to understand each other.

I was given a copy of the book for review.

I fell for Shelter Me by Juliette Fay — hook, line, and sinker. It was the type of book I read at the beach, when I got back from the beach, before going to dinner, in the car driving to dinner at the beach. We were joined at the spine for a solid week (pun intended). I read part at the beach and part at the pool. In fact it was one of the books that I readat the pool. My kids are no longer babies, so I get to sit on a lounge chair and read a book. Squee!

Shelter Me begins with a death — a sad, tragic death of a man who was not wearing a bike helmet. The centers around the young wife and mother who must continue to provide daily care to her children when all she wants to do is not live any longer. Yes, the circumstances of the book are tragic. The death of a young person is impossible to fully comprehend.

Janie LaMarche is stubborn, determined, and a little standoffish. She does take too kindly to all the people rallying around to help her. She spurns the parish priest who is determined to provide support to her. She begrudgingly accepts her aunt’s help, but is not happy with her aunt’s advice and counsel. She is angry that her mother has decided to return to her home in Italy.

Life is not treating Janie well. As I read through the book, I wondered how it would all end. Was the young priest too involved? Why did the handyman come back to do the job? How would her young children react? The baby…would she remember her dad? The little boy…would he start acting out at school? 

I would highly recommend this book to you. Shelter Me would be a great Book Club book — many topics for discussion.

For more information on Juliette Fay, go here. Are you on Facebook?  Fan Shelter_Me.

I’m not a dad and I don’t have a daughter of marriageable age — don’t I sound very Jane Austenish all of a sudden — but I really enjoyed this book.

The book was my constant companion during a beach vacation. For the first time in 13 years I was able to read a book on the beach for more than 2 seconds. The kid, the preteen, and the teen were all able to entertain themselves, so that I could read a book without interruption.

My children are far from getting married, but I still found this dad’s musings on marriage, being a good dad to a daughter, and building relationships with your newly married daughter to be thought provoking. My oldest is only 13, but I can imagine that when she is married I will need to reassess our relationship. Will I call her endlessly and bug her about this and that? Or will I let her have her space so that we can develop a more grownup rapport? Will I assume that she wants my advice? What about my husband? How will his relationship with his daughter change?

Wolgemuth deals extensively with his wife’s need for contact with their daughters. The book is written from the perspective of a dad, but Wolgemuth includes his wife’s dilemmas as well. How often should you phone your newly married daughter? How often should you visit? These are questions that all parents of married children will one day have to ask themselves.

Wolgemuth and his wife tread through the minefield of life after marriage. Wolgemuth’s wife buys a dining room set as a surprise for her daughter, but her generous gesture makes her son-in-law feel excluded. Her son-in-law had wanted to purchase the dining room set as a gift for his wife. Wolgemuth and wife were given a wakeup call to ask permission first before making a big purchase. It may seem ungenerous of Wolgemuth’s daughter and son-in-law, but boundaries are needed in all relationships.

Speaking of boundaries, I recall when my husband and I got wind that my in laws were contemplating moving to our development. We had to have a very frank talk with them. We thought that having the in laws 5 houses away was not a good idea. We knew that if the in laws wanted to move they would – we had no control over them and quite rightly so. I felt better letting my in laws know of my concerns. In the end our in laws did not move, but it got me thinking about setting limits.

Wolgemuth sprinkles his prose with corresponding Biblical quotes. Wolgemuth matches these Biblical verses to situations in his own life. He brings the Bible to life with this real world interpretation. I must admit to not knowing my Bible inside and out, so I enjoyed this part of the book.

Shaded boxes highlight a nugget of Dad-ly advice. These boxes serve to break up the text and let the reader know what is important. Each chapter ends with Remodelers Checklist, a recap of the salient points for dads to keep in mind.

Wolgemuth’s previous book, She Calls Me Daddy, focuses on raising a daughter. Dads of daughters must trade trucks and cars for dolls and tea sets. Wolgemuth helps dads make this transition. These two books are a kind of  What to Expect the First Year for the older crowd. A simple chapter-by-chapter guide to raising a daughter in to a grown woman

Click here to buy She Still Calls Me Daddy: Building a New Relationship with Your Daughter After You Walk Her Down the Aisle

Thanks to Thomas Nelson Publishers for providing this book for my review.